What Is It About Arrogant Men That Turn Women On?
I was up late last night listening to Justin Timberlake songs when I thought about how much of an arrogant prick Justin Timberlake is. I remember seeing him on TV and just getting rude, off putting vibes from him. Then I remembered how awfully turned on I was by that. That’s when I decided to write this blog. What is it about arrogant men like Justin Timberlake, Kanye West and so many more that turn us women on?
I can only speak for myself in this blog so you guys can feel free to leave your comments as well. I think the primary reason we adore an arrogant man is the overwhelming amount of confidence and security he seems to possess. There is no bigger turn off than a man who is insecure in the way he looks, dresses or even his finances. An arrogant man on the other hand doesn’t care about what others think, at least he doesn’t appear to. He’s secure enough in himself that he almost convinces you to love him just by entering a room. Yes, his arrogance can be annoying at times, but it’s easily overlooked when you have the most awesome man on your arm!
I also think that a hint of arrogance can go hand in hand with the bad boy image that us women love so much. The coolest guys in school knew they were and weren’t afraid to let you know they were. In movies, the bad guy was often just as cool. Cool is the equivalent of all things sexy. Sometimes just knowing that a man is possibly too cool for you and likely unattainable makes the chase all the more fun. Who wants the easy guy when you can go for the bigger prize? Not to mention an arrogant man will always keep you on his toes with what comes out of his mouth but you better believe he’ll be standing up for what he believes in.
Lastly an arrogant man usually has a reason to be. A lot of times it’s his talent. The genius of men like Kanye and Justin Timberlake is attractive in itself. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with a man being cocky if he has a reason to be, right? They say the nice guys finish last. I wouldn’t say that was true, but an arrogant man might finish a few seconds before you, that’s all! — Eleven8